bearfacedkiller wrote: ↑Mon Sep 03, 2018 1:15 pmThere is nothing wrong with enjoying material objects. There is nothing wrong with appreciating the fruits of your labor. There is nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments. The issue is allowing desire to control you. Desire is a strong emotion, arguably too strong. The point is to not be overcome with want and to appreciate what you have and not worry about what you don't have.embry386 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 03, 2018 12:38 pmsal wrote: ↑Mon Sep 03, 2018 12:22 pmbearfacedkiller wrote: ↑Sun Sep 02, 2018 8:23 pmDesire is the root of suffering. The less you want, the happier you are.
Hi Darby, I've always said that "Serenity is found in the absence of desire".
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The concept of "not desiring anything" always reminds me of that sort of flat apathetic exhausted feeling you get with depression. For me, happiness comes from admiring the stuff I have and enjoying it, and from enjoying the fun challenge and anticipation of getting more stuff that I don't yet have.
You use the word apethic which comes from the greek word apatheia. Apatheia was a goal of the stoics, a branch of greek philosophy. Apathy has a negative connotations today and is a core symptom of depression but to the stoics apetheia was an enlightened state that meant that you were free from the control of your passions and you were indifferent to things beyond your control. The two words today have completely different meanings but it is interesting what their connection is. Apathy is an indifference to almost everything but apatheia is about having a sound and balanced mind that is not controlled by outside forces or strong emotions.
Ah! Yeah, it's definitely good to avoid being controlled by your emotions and becoming a shopping addict or whatever. Interesting how those words have the same root but different meanings :) The phrasing of that saying about desire still doesn't gel with me, but like I said in my edit to my original post, more power to you if it works for you!